The Wingmen — a private social club for Phoenix men
A private social club for Phoenix men: vetted events, honest dating coaching, and a crew that shows up.
The Wingmen is operated by The Wingman Club LLC. Members get a curated weekly slate of Phoenix events scored on crowd, venue and value, a private community, a learning curriculum, and a coach in their pocket.
Membership is $19 a month at the founding rate — the first 30 members lock it in for as long as they stay. Every application is reviewed by a person.
Questions about the club: daniel@salesarcsolutions.com (Daniel Gourley, founder).
- About the club
- Singles events in Phoenix this week
- The Field Guide
- Weekly picks — free weekly email
- Apply for an invite
From the Field Guide
Straight answers to what men actually ask about dating, social skills, and where to go in Phoenix — written by the club. Read the Field Guide.
- Best Scottsdale Nightclubs for People Over 40 — The Wingmen's field-scouted guide to Scottsdale's best rooms for men in their 40s and 50s — honest crowd reads, best nights, and who to skip.
- Best First Date Ideas in Scottsdale (2026) — The Wingmen's field-scouted guide to Scottsdale first dates: the best rooms, the right nights, honest crowd reads, and which venues to skip.
- Where should you take a girl on a date in Phoenix? — The Wingmen's scouted shortlist: best Phoenix date venues for men 40s-50s — crowd reads, honest caveats, no hype.
- Best Bars to Meet Someone in Phoenix (Honest Field Guide) — The Wingmen rank Phoenix's best rooms for meeting someone real — Arizona Biltmore, Geordie's, and eight more, scored across hundreds of scouted nights.
- What to do solo in Phoenix? | The Wingmen Field Guide — The best rooms in Phoenix for a man going solo — ranked by crowd age, format and real mingling potential. Eight venues, honest caveats, no hype.